Surely, all of us want to be a better version of ourselves. We keep improving ourselves in anyways. In the middle of changing ourselves for becoming a better one, we hurt ourselves; we push ourselves too hard but we do not realize it. Do not realize that we are not changing ourselves to become a better one but ironically, we do hurt ourselves more in a stealthy way. Some of us, changing ourselves for ourselves. Some of us, changing ourselves for other people. It's a great thing if you change yourselves to improve your idea of yourself. BUT! It's not a good thing if you change yourself for others. Just to make a good impression on them. Believe me. There's no end of it.
Yeah, I know, even the reason is for ourselves, there's no end of it too. But at least, it does not hurt us because we do it for ourselves. Not somebody else.
We will never be enough in someone eyes, even if we do everything as they say. We will never be enough. Our standard and their standard are different. Every one of us has a different standard.
So, why do you have to change for them?
Change yourself for you.
A better you, your idea of you, not someone else.
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